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The Energy of Indecision: How to Move When You Feel Stuck Between Two Paths

May 30, 2025
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You’re standing at a crossroads.

You’ve got two options in front of you, both viable, both meaningful, and maybe even both exciting.

But instead of feeling empowered, you feel frozen. You go in mental circles, analyze everything from every angle, and start to doubt your intuition altogether.

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in decision paralysis, it’s not because you’re indecisive. It’s because your energy is split. And when your energy is split, it becomes very hard to hear your truth or trust your next move.

 


 

What indecision really is (from an energetic perspective)

 

Indecision happens when your energy is trying to go in two different directions at once. Your field becomes fragmented. Your clarity drops. You start second-guessing yourself, and the more you think about it, the worse it gets.

It’s not just a mental dilemma. It’s an energetic one.

Your soul may already know the answer. But if your nervous system isn’t on board, or if you’re carrying fear, pressure, or old programming, your channel gets noisy. You stop being able to feel which path is truly yours.

The longer you stay in that energy, the more drained and confused you feel.

 


 

Client story: Two paths, one truth

 

My client Eliza was deciding whether to stay in her corporate job or take the leap into her creative business full time. She had done all the logical pros and cons lists. She had talked to her friends, mentors, and journaled for days.

But she still felt completely torn. “I just don’t know what’s right,” she said.

When we tuned into her energy, the answer became clear. Her soul was pulling toward her creative business, but her nervous system was holding onto the safety of her corporate identity. She wasn’t actually confused, she just needed to regulate her fear and clear the energetic attachment to the identity she was outgrowing.

Once we did that, the clarity landed. She moved forward from alignment, not from pressure.

 


 

Signs your indecision is energetic, not logical

 

  • You’ve done all the research but still feel stuck

  • You swing between two options daily (or hourly)

  • Both options feel like “shoulds” but neither feels like a full yes

  • You feel disconnected from your intuition or gut knowing

  • You feel tired or emotionally flat after thinking about it

  • You feel afraid of making the “wrong” choice and regretting it

These are signs that your mind has taken over, but your energy is still holding onto old attachments, fear, or resistance.

 


 

How to move forward when you feel stuck between two paths

 

  1. Clear the static before making any decision
    You can’t hear your soul clearly when your nervous system is in fight-or-flight. Breathe. Ground. Run your energy. Create space for clarity to come through.

  2. Ask your body, not just your brain
    Hold each option in your awareness and feel it in your body. Does it feel expansive or tight? Grounded or buzzy? Your body often knows before your mind can explain it.

  3. Release the need for certainty
    Clarity isn’t always 100 percent certainty. It’s often a quiet knowing, a gentle pull, or a soft peace. If you’re waiting for total clarity before taking any action, you may be stalling your momentum.

  4. Get honest about what’s really holding you back
    Are you afraid of being seen? Of letting someone down? Of failing? Often, we aren’t confused about what we want, we’re just afraid to claim it.

  5. Anchor into your soul, not your circumstances
    Let your future be shaped by your frequency, not by fear. When you connect with your Soul Blueprint and act from that place, the next step becomes obvious.

     

 

Your energy already knows, your mind just needs to catch up

 

You are not stuck because you’re incapable of making a decision. You are stuck because your energy is trying to protect you.

But when you come back to your truth, clear the noise, and reconnect with your soul’s wisdom, you’ll realize the path has been there all along.

You just needed to trust it enough to walk it.

 

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