What If It’s Not a Block, It’s a Mismatch

If you’ve been on a healing or manifestation journey for a while, you’ve probably asked yourself some version of this question:

“What’s blocking me?”

And maybe you’ve done the deep dives. The shadow work. The cord-cutting. The inner child healing.
You’ve journaled, meditated, released, visualized, aligned your chakras, and prayed to the angels.

But the thing still hasn’t arrived. Or it does, and it feels like a weird fit. Or you manifest something that looks good on paper, but doesn’t land in your body as truth.

If that’s where you are, I want to gently offer this perspective: Maybe it’s not a block. Maybe it’s a mismatch.

What’s the difference between a block and a mismatch?

A block is something unresolved in your energy that’s distorting your frequency, like fear, unworthiness, or a past wound that hasn’t been integrated. These can and should be cleared, healed, or transmuted.

But a mismatch is when what you’re asking for doesn’t match your soul’s current truth. It’s not that you’re unworthy of it. It’s that it’s not actually yours.

You can’t manifest what you’ve been told to want, you can only magnetize what’s aligned with your unique energetic blueprint.

Client story: Releasing the wrong goal

My client Zoey came to me feeling like a failure. She had been trying to manifest a book deal for over two years. She’d done all the mindset work, cleared the visibility wounds, even mapped out her ideal publisher.

But nothing was landing. And she was exhausted.

When we tuned into her Akashic Records, it became clear: the book wasn’t wrong, but the topic was. She had been trying to write what she thought would “sell” instead of what her soul actually wanted to share.

Once she realigned the message with her true essence, the words flowed, her energy lit up, and the opportunities started to come in. Because now, her desire and her design were finally a match.

How to tell if you’re dealing with a mismatch

• You’ve done all the “work” but still feel stuck or flat

• The goal you’re chasing drains you instead of energizing you

• You can’t visualize it clearly, or it feels far away even when you try

• You feel tension in your body when you think about receiving it

• Deep down, you’re more attached to how it will look than how it will feel

Mismatch energy is subtle. It doesn’t mean you’re asking for too much. It just means you may be asking for something that doesn’t align with who you are becoming.

How to shift from forcing to aligning

1. Drop the ego goals
   Let go of what sounds good, looks good, or would make you feel “enough” in the eyes of others. Ask instead, “What actually lights me up?”

2. Reconnect with your core energetic gifts
   Your Soul Blueprint holds the codes for how you naturally create, serve, and manifest. When you align your desires with these gifts, everything flows faster.

3. Tune into how the desire feels, not just what it promises
   If your goal doesn’t make your body feel open, soft, or alive, it may not be the goal itself. It might be how you’re holding it, or who you’re trying to be inside of it.

4. Let your soul revise your vision
   Sometimes your Higher Self wants to take you somewhere better than your mind can imagine. Let go of specifics long enough to receive a better blueprint.

5. Trust the recalibration
   If a desire suddenly drops away, don’t panic. That space is being cleared for something more aligned. You haven’t failed, you’ve refined.

Alignment creates acceleration

You’re not blocked.
You’re not bad at manifesting.
You’re not missing anything.

You might just be chasing something that’s no longer a match for your frequency.

When you stop trying to force the old vision and start listening to your current truth, everything clicks.

You feel lighter.
More spacious.
More powerful.
And that’s when the real magic begins.